Just finished reading a great interview with Alan by Christianity Today.

I want to spend 24 hours processing it and I will post a reflection tomorrow as to some implications for youth ministry.

Until then, here is a great quote to ponder:

In your book, you echoed a statement by Neil Cole that basically said the bar has been set too low in most modern churches when it comes to disciple making. Can you explain that a bit further?

Yes, what Neil says in effect is that we need to raise the bar on our expectations for disciple making and lower the bar on our expectations for church. And I think he’s right. I mean, that’s exactly what the early church did, and it’s certainly what the Chinese church is doing. In a martyrdom movement, you’re raising the bar extremely high. People are going to die, and the churches teach them how to die well.

But in our culture, we tend to reverse that. We deliver all the goodies up front, and then we wonder why people don’t become disciples. My question is: Why would they? What’s with all that stuff about “death to self”? Why should I change, and why should I volunteer for all that heavy lifting when I’ve got my snout in the trough right now?

Fajita!Great stories are like great meals…all the ingredients come together to make for a fantastic experience that you can’t stop telling all your friends about. And like any chef, we want to cook up some great stories…stories that captivate, motivate, and transform lives.

So as we step up to the preparation counter, I want to help you grab the necessary ingredients in order to create and deliver a great story.

Let’s get cooking! …OK, i’ll stop the cheesy (pun intended) metaphor. :)

Ingredient #1 - Point of View

The perspective of the narrator (not the author) determines the point of view. It can either be in the first-person, second-person, or third-person. An effective use of point of view can be in telling a familiar story from an unfamiliar perspective. For example, how many times have you communicated the parable of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) from the father’s perspective? a hired servant’s perspective? the foreign landowner’s perspective?

Experiment with reading and communicating stories from Scripture from an uncommon point of view.

Ingredient #2 - Setting

This is the backdrop for the story - time, location, circumstances. The setting sheds much light on the story. By understanding the setting we can better understand why characters act a certain way and say certain things. Setting is crucial. A story without it’s setting is like a Mona Lisa without it’s canvas - it just doesn’t make sense. As you read Scripture and understand the stories in it, do your homework and research what the setting is. By understanding the historical, political, religious, and cultural backdrop of 1st century Jerusalem we will gain greater meaning to Jesus’ life and ministry, Paul’s missionary journey’s and letters, and so on. Many bad sermons are preached because we have not understood the backdrop and setting in which the stories in Scripture take place.

The key in storytelling is linking the setting of a particular story in Scripture to the current setting of our lives.

 Ingredient #3 - Characters

Every story needs characters…characters that often stand as mirrors that reflect back to us truths about our lives, our insecurities, our fears, our hopes, and our dreams and everything in between. In preparing to communicate a story from Scripture, ask yourself questions about the character: what emotions are they feeling? what has happened to them leading up to this? why do they say what they do? what is their motivation for their actions?

By stepping into a character’s shoes, we can help students step into God’s story more effectively.

Ingredient #4 - Protagonists

Also known as the main character or hero, the protagonist  is essentially the “good guy.” These are the characters that you cheer for! Traditionally, the protagonist is the character that undergoes a dramatic change throughout the course of the story. Think Indiana Jones, Luke Skywalker, Ruth, King David, Esther, Jesus…just hearing those names incites memories of heroic tales.

Look for the protagonists in the story and see how they are changed throughout the course of the story.

Ingredient #5 - Antagonists

Every story has a antagonist. These are the “bad guys” that we come to hate. Antagonists can be sinister villains, oppressive governments, machines, even ourselves…really anything that opposes the protagonist. We see them at the movies in Darth Vader, Agent Smith (from the Matrix), Jaws and we see them in Scripture in Pharoah, King Herod, and ultimately Satan.

Try looking for antagonists that have turned into protagonists as a result of God’s grace…think the murderous Saul becoming the apostle Paul.

Ingredient #6 - Conflict

Conflict is a state of discord that is caused by the opposition of real or perceived needs, values, or interests. Conflict can be either internal or external and, traditionally, is between the protagonist and the antagonist. In other words there is a whole lotta conflict between Daniel LaRusso and the Cobra Kai in the 1984 masterpiece. The key here is that through conflict the characters are changed…some for the better some for worse. In our American culture, we often avoid conflict and think that a healthy spiritual life is one that is void of conflict. However, if you look throughout Scripture, conflict abounds and is even promised to those who choose to follow Christ. By understanding and embracing the reality of conflict in our lives and in Scripture, we can better communicate the power of God who steps outside the comforts of heaven and into the messy conflicts in our lives - and changes us for the better if we allow Him.

Ingredient #7 - Climax (Turning Point)

This is the point in the story when the highest amount of conflict tension is reached. Everything hangs in the balance…what will happen when Luke Skywalker turns off the navigation computer and simply relies on the force just moments before attempting to blow up the Death Star?  What will happen to Maximus in his epic fight with Commodus in the Gladiator? These are the moments that everything builds too…the defining moment of the story. This is not the resolution, it is the moment before the resolution.

If we understand Scripture as the unfolding narrative of God’s Story, then what is the climax? Is it creation, the birth of Jesus, Jesus’ resurrection, Jesus’ return? If we look at God’s Story from a narrative perspective, it’s actually none of these.

In fact, the climax in God’s Story is His death on the cross. The God who is the creator and initiator and the main character throughout the entire Story dies. The hero has been crucified and left for dead. Everything hangs in the balance…Jesus, who is fully God and fully human, might be a complete liar because of his death. There would be no kingdom come…no peace on earth…no abundant life.

Though Jesus has been resurrected from the dead, we haven’t reached the resolution of God’s Story (which we’ll talk about next). In fact, as my friend Darrell Walters who is on staff with Mosaic, Pasadena so insightfully said:

We live our entire lives within the tension of the climax of God’s Story. We often incorrectly read Scripture and think that everything has already happened, the story has already been finished, and we just look back and reflect on it. Rather, the resolution will come when Jesus returns and establishes his kingdom here on earth. We play a critical role in God’s Story as he invites us into it. He wants us to be either hot or cold…we’re either in or we are out…there is a sense of urgency in our decision to join Him or not.

This has HUGE implications as we understand God’s Story and our role in it. Narrative preaching should not only draw people into God’s Story that is continually unfolding but also acknowledge that we are living in the a crucial point in the story and we have a significant role to play.

Ingredient #8 - Denoument (Resolution)

These are the series of events that follow the climax that also serve as the resolution or conclusion of the story. The princess is rescued and marries her prince, the unlikely hero overcomes his internal fears, and they all live “happily ever after.”

The great news is that we have been given a glimpse of the denoument of God’s Story. It’s a conclusion that will last for eternity…God will establish his kingdom, Jesus Christ will sit on the throne, we will all live in peace and as John gives us a glimpse in the Book of Revelation:

And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God hiself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, there will be no mourning nor crying nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new!”

Become familiar with the denoument of God’s Story. Because we have a sneak peak, we can offer hope to those who are in the midst of crisis, turmoil, and guilt.

Again, great stories are like great meals…let’s keep spurring each other on and serve food that will nourish and transform lives for Christ.

Next post will be: The need to understand and be able to communicate your own story

My sister is the Communications Director for Invisible Children, a non-profit based in California that is doing some amazing humanitarian work in Uganda. One of the big reasons for their success is their effective use of storytelling. As they say about themselves:

We are storytellers. We are visionaries, humanitarians, artists, and entrepreneurs. We are individuals part of a generation eager for change and willing to pursue it.

As a non-profit we work to transform apathy into activism. By documenting the lives of those living in regions of conflict and injustice, we hope to educate and inspire individuals in the Western world to use their unique voice for change. Our media creates an opportunity for people to become part of a grassroots movement that intelligently responds to what’s happening in the world.

My sister was telling me recently of a meeting Invisible Children had with World Vision in which the power of storytelling was highlighted. Within the meeting, World Vision observed how disproportinately their donors were much older compared to Invisible Children’s. While World Vision’s recognizable name and solid track-record have appealed for years, “why is it that the younger generations are connecting with Invisible Children more?” was the question. At the end of the meeting, it was apparent that both non-profits recognized Invisible Children’s ability to use storytelling as the essential ingredient in getting the younger generations to connect with their message. As a result, World Vision recognized it needed to increase it’s use of storytelling to reach younger generations rather than just relying on it’s established name and track record.

In fact, the primary mission of Invisible Children is “to use the power of stories to change lives around the world.”

Storytelling has been around for millenia and now everything from video games, to commercials, to websites, to corporations, to water bottles are harnessing the power of story. As a result, the younger generations are being raised on story. Take video games for example. Long gone are the days when a little ship would shoot at and destroy asteroids…rather, video games today weave a complex storyline throughout that unfolds more like a movie than a game. Halo 3 is the most popular video game out right now among teenagers and its powerful mixture of storytelling and action has created a cult-like following.

Many have recognized that storytelling is the most effective mode of communication for reaching the younger generations…the question is, when will the church, which is consistently late to the party recognize not only the power of story within our present cultural context but also the biblical basis of story?

Next week, let’s interact with the necessary components of storytelling before we move on to the final 3 posts on:

(3) The need to understand and be able to communicate your own story
(4) The need to understand and be able to communicate the biblical Story
(5) How Jesus gives us an example for how we should preach, disciple, evangelize, and train leaders

Until then, here are a few ways to help identify story in everyday life:

1. everytime you see a commercial ask yourself, “what story are they telling?”
2. notice how even trailers to movies communicate a short-story
3. how do you see story being used on websites?

StorytellingStories. They are all around us. In books, movies, television shows. As children, we learned through stories and as adults we gravitate towards good ones. Every photo album, every friendship, and every family is filled with stories. Stories give meaning to our lives and provide the context for the unfolding events that we are in.  With news and information at our fingertips, an entire nation has been able to see first-hand the unveiling story of the OJ Simpson case, Columbine, 9/11, Hurricane Katrina, and so on. We tune in and want to see what happens next, we talk about it with our friends, and we become immersed in the story. We are a story-driven culture.

 

Yet why is it that we do not harness the power of story in our preaching, evangelism, discipleship, and leadership?

Jesus was a storyteller who spoke in narrative form every time he had a crowd gathered around him.

Why then do we preach a 3-point sermon, evangelize with the 4 spiritual laws, disciple following 5 easy steps, and lead our ministries with a purpose statement that is also an acronym for some catchy word?

It is so tempting for us to zoom in on propositional truths because it is easy. The problem is that in doing so, we miss the big picture of God’s Story throughout history. In the same way that we can’t stand an inch away from a Picasso painting and think that we fully understand it, we can’t focus on a couple key truths about God and be satisfied. We must step back and see the big picture, the beautiful sweeping strokes of God’s limitless love and overarching masterpiece of creation, the fall, redemption, and restoration.

I heard Donald Miller recently say at a conference, “evangelism is about communicating to somebody a better story than the one that they are already living. The problem is, the Church isn’t telling a very good story.” The unfolding story of God’s redemptive love, rescue, and reconciliation is so much more powerful than a list of bullet points about things a Christian should and should not do.

Over the next 5 posts I want to explore with you the power of storytelling within the context of youth ministry. Specifically, I want to focus on:

(1) How storytelling is the most effective mode of communication to the millennial generation
(2) The necessary elements of storytelling
(3) The need to understand and be able to communicate your own story
(4) The need to understand and be able to communicate the biblical Story
(5) How Jesus gives us an example for how we should preach, disciple, evangelize, and train leaders

Until then, I will leave you with 3 myths and 3 truths about the power of story that are found in a book I highly recommend, “Reconnecting God’s Story to Ministry” by Tom A. Steffen:

Myth 1: Stories are synonymous with fiction
Myth 2: Stories are for children
Myth 3: Bible stories and theology are unrelated

Truth 1: Storytelling is a universal form of communication that transcends cultures.
Truth 2: Approximately 75 percent of the bible is narrative
Truth 3: Jesus taught theology through stories

Mother Ship 

 So here I am, sitting at a bistro table at the mother-ship…Willow Creek Community Church. I’m sitting alongside Jon Nungester, friend and middle school pastor at Calvary Community Church and we are digesting fajitas, cheesecake, and this morning’s session at the conference, led by Darren Whitehead, high school pastor here at Willow.

Darren talked about 3 major shifts that we need to make in youth ministry:

1. Less teacher-generated content to more user-generated content

2. Less leading as travel agents to more leading as tour guides

3. Less ministry through imitation to more ministry through imagination. 

Unpacking this, we need to stop spoon-feeding students but rather allow students to participate in the meal. We need to stop “doing church” for them and allow students to “be the church.” We need to stop telling people about the journey and start traveling with them. We need to stop asking students to fit into a box and start allowing them to dream big when it comes to following Christ. Stuff that I get and have heard before…especially in Bolger and Gibb’s book, Emerging Churches in the 21st Century. But it’s great to keep being encouraged in this area and to reflect on how to put it into practice.

Keeping up with the tech times, you can even follow along with the conference in the comfort of your own ___________(insert location here) on the Shift Conference Blog.

 

It is not often that i post an entire article…rather, i select snippets from what i read and interact with it. I just read this article by Don Toshach from Souleader and I want to mull over it for a few days before i post on it…until then, here is the article…

Becoming De-Westernized

By Don Toshach

Now that the Taliban regime in Afghanistan and Saddam Hussein’s oppressive dictatorship in Iraq have fallen like so many political/military/ cultural/spiritual dominos, the the quest to bring democracy to these peoples. After years of Islamic extremism, a transitional government structure is now in place in Afghanistan under the watchful eye of the U.S. and its allies. Iraq’s future is still being debated at roundtables both inside and outside the country.

Change is occurring on the streets of both countries. Beards are disappearing. Women’s veils are being removed. Movie houses and bookstores are again open. With positive shifts that come with these developments, there is a danger of a people losing its distinctiveness and becoming wedded to another system of bondage as it embraces the values and mores of the West in the name of freedom and enterprise. As the Who’s classic song “Won’t Get Fooled Again” says: “Meet the new boss, same as the old boss.”

The new/old boss is westernization. It might be defined as the “we’re right-you’re wrong” mentality. Have it our way. Be linked to the global economy and community. Use our technology, watch our television shows and movies. The influence of America and the West is infused into our political systems, music, higher learning, sports, and fashion. Look like us. Dress like us. Think like us. Be like us. Buy our stuff. Be hip, be cool. If you don’t, you’ll be behind, not with it. For those of us in the West, we don’t even recognize how westernized we’ve become because it’s so deeply ingrained within. Only when having to light a candle during a power outage or using an outhouse while camping do we catch a glimpse of how utter dependent we are upon the system and how sharply that contrasts with the rest of the world.

Westernization has permeated the church. The organic, apostolic, communal gatherings featured in the book of Acts have been replaced by ones run by suited professionals with stopwatches. Highly structured. Highly cerebral. Highly sanitized. Featuring a God who’s understandable and safe. Everything org-charted. A congregant knows what’s going to go on in this kind of church this week, next week, next month, and next year. Predictable and comfortable. What’s wrong with this picture? Welcome to the machine, Stepford children of God! Whatever happened to the Holy Spirit? The Western church bares little resemblance to anything in the Bible, but everything in our faster, better, cheaper business world. The consequence? It is largely devoid of life and power of the Spirit kind. It is as westernized as a Carl’s Jr. Western Bacon Cheeseburger.

How the West is Lost…

The difficulty we face now is attempting to figure out what it means to de-westernized. Doing this leads us into irony. Even if we could figure it out completely, we would be westernizing our very definition of de-westernization! It cannot be subject to our left-brain analysis. The western mindset is programmed to evaluate and act upon information that fits conventional wisdom. Therefore, the de-westernization process has do with “being in the Spirit,” which requires seeing and hearing from God differently and preferring an unconventional and relevatory wisdom that’s other-worldly.

Right now, for those who chose this path, becoming de-westernized means that we permit God to challenge EVERY assumption, presumption, and expectation. What worked so well yesterday not only may not work today, it may be disobedience if you try it again. We search the Scriptures to explain our supernatural experiences with God. Our encyclopedic data banks of knowledge, our credentials, the ways we encounter God and He encounters us all are becoming unraveled and liberated from the comfort of the known and anticipated. De-westernization comes not only to dismantle our structures of religiosity—both apparent and hidden—but it seeks to re-birth us into life in the Spirit that the mind was never intended to capture or control.

The Spirit of the “Aliens”

In the book of James, it says that an ordinary man like Elijah could pray for rain and it would pour.

Ezekiel had dramatic visions. Daniel and Joseph dreamed in technicolor specifics. Jesus could suddenly disappear from angry crowds that threatened His premature death. Philip talked to an angel of the Lord, evangelized a queen’s servant, and then “the Spirit of the Lord suddenly took Philip away” in a world without airplanes and bullet trains (Acts 8:39). Throughout the Scriptures we receive the clues of a supernatural life we have only begun to taste. Little by little, with each God encounter, we join the legions of God-chasers before us who regularly crossed over the boundaries between heaven and earth. They were strangers and aliens, earthbound misfits, and supernatural beings. Their daily lives were governed by the whim of the Spirit. Recently God led me to read through the book of Jeremiah. I’ve discovered a couple of nuggets of buried treasure hidden in pronouncements of judgment against stubborn rulers and stuck people. Actually, the process of reading Jeremiah has been a journey into de-westernization. I can’t figure it out entirely, and neither can the authors of the commentaries on my bookshelf!

Jeremiah 1:10 establishes that a work of God requires personal and corporate demolition prior to building and planting. John Scotland, a prophetic voice from England, questioned why many are building in a season of demolition. The tearing down, uprooting, destroying, and overthrowing has been happening because God and His River are doing the lion’s share of the work. Only the constant rushing living water from the Throne has the force to carve deep canyons into bedrock, and to remove and carry away the embedded rocks of slavery and usher us into the delight of freedom in the Father. Many have treated the River as a carbonated soda or a day at the God Spa—mere refreshment before moving on to something more important and tangible. Unfortunately, they are pouring concrete foundations over the human rubble of pride and fear, and erecting structures that will contain the reluctant blessing of God without the fullness or the lasting fulfillment. For those perceiving the new things of God, the westernized church no longer holds much attraction. We grapple with how to honor the mainstream churches whose theology cages the Holy Spirit, and those ministries that ran aground on the sandbar in the River and took it as a cue to get a tan and mount new campaigns to win the world and hold large conferences. How do we bless pastors and churches that have channeled the River into their denominational aqueducts, or kept some out in Tupperware containers to be opened cautiously and poured out sparingly in special services? It’s a struggle, to be sure.

Erasing the Lines

The perceivers of and participants in God’s new thing are people who are of the Spirit and function in the Spirit. After all, we’ve been “given the one Spirit to drink.” (1 Cor. 12:13). The long prophesied saints movement is beginning to emerge as a dandelion in the crack of the concrete sidewalk of pastor-dominated, performance-oriented, purpose-driven church paradigms. Throw away the spiritual gifts assessment tools and laypeople mobilization strategy notebooks. The days are here when the Lord is not coloring outside the lines, but He’s erased the lines and is putting the crayons into our hands. For pastors, it feels like unemployment, but it is actually redeployment. For others, it feels intangible and illegitimate, and it is! This is the essence of the mobile amoeba of the early apostolic church found multiplying endlessly and unyieldingly in the book of Acts. Permit me to highlight just a few other things that the Lord seems to be addressing in this season:

• We are in the church, but not of it. Don’t get me wrong. Of course, we are in and of the body of Christ universal and local. As part of the church, we share a common identity with Jesus, but we do not accept the values and practices of thoroughly westernized churches and enominations that discount or ignore the necessary empowerment of the Holy Spirit in every aspect of gathering together and going out to be the gospel. Do not expect our increasingly de-westernized mindset and enjoyment of being in the Spirit to be understood, valued or embraced by westernized people or churches. It won’t. Remember: There is no such thing as a popular revolution. In the interim, ask God for the right heart to bless that others in the body of Christ who it seems to us are settling for old wineskins, and shelter you from a critical spirit.

• The church in, of, and by the Spirit is the church of the Post-It Note. It’s definable only in its ability to be stuck onto what God is saying and doing for a moment, or even for a short season. This movement is not about the pastor being bored and needing to change things for change sake, but a people of God becoming a prophetic demonstration and acting in the opposite spirit for the purposes of intercession and other things that the Lord has purposed NOT to reveal. The First Church of the Post-It Note is simple, able to be repositioned, and even in some ways, disposable.

• We are witnessing the erosion of our evangelical arrogance. For too long we have lived to be right and do the right things. Note that that was and is the spirit of the Pharisees. All aspects of ministry are changing, especially the prevalent forms of worship and teaching that have been largely captured by the western mindset. Be open and flexible. God is demanding for us to shake the dust off our souls and the comfort mechanisms of what it means to be productive Christians and have a church of so-called “good reputation.” Watch spontaneous songs and prophetic words, art, and demonstrations of all varieties chip away at this evangelical arrogance as we are confronted with ideas, concepts, and assignments that appear foolish and inconsequential. They are not!

• We are seeing the initial release of apostolic fathers. We have lived in an era of theoreticians instead of practitioners, and figureheads instead of fathers. We’ve looked to pastors to be our replacement dads instead of our heavenly Father. We loved our new dad for a season before we killed and ate him, and shopped for the next new and improved model that would ultimately “fail” us again. Fortunately, the River of God’s renewal was sent to help us deal with such issues of transference and to heal us from our father wounds. This flow has brought many of us to the place where the Lord desires for us to father others. “Fathering” is not age- or gender-exclusive. Much of prior fellowship in the church has come with fix-it agendas, with home group attendees as paramedics applying bandages at the first sight of blood. The rise of the fathering will release the wounded healers to father in a way that is truly redemptive, focused more on hands-on prayer than man-handled advising. In this way, we begin to become home to one another.

• We’re going to deeper levels of sonship and sovereignty. The other day I stumbled upon another nugget in Jeremiah nestled in a diatribe against lying prophets: “Am I only a God nearby, declares the Lord, and not a God far away? Can anyone hide in secret places so that I cannot see him? declares the Lord. Do not I fill heaven and earth? declares the Lord.” (Jer. 23:23-24). In this season, our God seems to have His finger on ever-deepening levels of discovering who were really are as true sons and daughters of the living God. That’s why many of us are struggling financially and wondering at times whether we missed the turn and God went the other direction. The issue of provision is one tool the Lord uses to test our faith and trust in trying times. As well, in the midst of a season of bridal-suite intimacy on the one hand, we are challenged to rely upon the “faraway” God, who cloaks His omni-availability in periods of agonizing silence and apparent distance. We visit the land of paradox as we feel beloved and forsaken by God at the same time. We wonder about our destiny and security. Yet again, we place ourselves in God’s hand of control that fear would be replaced by love.

• We have added a feasted lifestyle to our fasted lifestyle. I am convinced that while the Bridegroom is present, I am to be a part of the Feast, not the fast (Matt. 9:14-17). If the Bridegroom is not present, it may be time to fast. The restoration of the significance of the table of broken bread and new wine is also being folded into a new place of simply delighting in enjoying the presence of Jesus at a meal. For too long we’ve ritualized and compartmentalized communion to make it a separate activity in the course of a worship experience. However, we’ve experienced worship in a new form as we’ve gathered for a barbecue, a potluck, dinner at the Cheesecake Factory, or wherever. No guitars, no sermons, no admonishments to stay on task with appropriate spiritual talk. We are feasting, freshly delighting in the Lord and one another, reversing the process of relational burnout, learning that family can rise above the dysfunctional, and saying goodbye to more tired, segmented western church small-group formats. In addition, we are acting out the truth of Psalm 23 in the kingdom now of the Lord preparing a table before us in the presence of our enemies.

• The Lord may not be as concerned about the sins we commit as the attitudes we permit. This statement is not about being light or permissive toward sin, but it encourages all of us to target the seedbed of sin—our unwashed attitudes toward God, people, and things that seek to entrap us, make us jaundiced and jaded, and keep us from the very spiritual life and health we claim to possess. Attitudes can be like spiritual anthrax—permeating and infecting everything and everyone. Hold your opinions loosely, and dispense mercy rather than judgment towards others and yourself. And be careful to not be a disgrace by dissing the grace that is so readily accessible through Christ.

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In this season, we are seeking to move to the rhythms of Jesus. Our sails are hoisted, waiting for the Spirit wind whose origin and destination is unknown. We are slowly but surely becoming dewesternized.

Don Toshach, after spending time as a writer and editor, planted several churches and pastored for almost 15 years. He is also on

Souleader’s ministry team and board of directors. Any portion of this article can be used without permission, but with proper

attribution of the author. For more information contact don@souleader.org.

This weekend, i have the opportunity to speak for the College Group at Bel Air Presbyterian Church…however, not in the church building but for their retreat in Big Bear, California.

I have been in quite a bit of prayer leading up to this and i am excited to see what God does.

The three sessions will revolve around:

Belonging to God

Belonging to God’s Community

Belonging to God’s Mission

When i get back, i’ll give you some more details…i’m back to the books now.

have you ever listened to a song and it felt like the song somehow transfered something over to you?  you know, when all of a sudden for no apparent reason you get tingley all over from the song?  unless i have some sort of psychosomatic problem, i think that music can sometimes remind me of the One who wants to bring me back to Him.  Sometimes I exprience God’s still small voice through the melodies and lyrics of songs…it’s as if God is speaking into the depths of my soul.

The reason I bring this up, is that I was just listening to the song, “Heaven” by a band called The Fire Theft.  I first heard it last month on a mission trip to Costa Rica…as we were winding through a mountain road, surrounded by foliage that had leaves bigger than a jr. higher, sounds of monkeys and birds mixed with the sound of an occasional waterfall…one of the high school students passed me his headphones…i was still immersed in the moment of my surroundings as i put on the headphones and a soundtrack began for what i was seeing…over the melodic interplay of piano, guitar, and drums…these words pierced into my heart…

Heaven
Are you really waiting outside the door?
Never thought I’d hear the words before the road

It’s the simple things that are so hard to grasp
Can’t find myself in all these days that pass
But I can feel it when it shines
Nevermind the way they shy
Turning round along the trail
My whole world is falling in love with you

And in that moment…i understood the words, “Be still and know that I am God.”  I felt God’s love pour over me like a warm shower and the rest of my trip became referenced in relation to that moment…simply amazing.

What are some ways that remind you of the One who has loved you since the beginning of time?

you know what i’m talking about.  There is some kind of mathematical equation that says that the longer you put off doing something there is a correlatory increase in the amount of excuses one makes in putting said thing off just a little bit longer.

My “to do” in question that I have put off for way to long is this…writing my thoughts down.

I won’t bore you with the excuses…but believe me I have come up with so many of them over the past two months as I have found myself getting busier and busier leading up to my wedding, preparing for youth ministry this summer, fixing up and selling my home, and buying a new place closer to work…all i know is that i am thankful my hour and a half commute will soon turn into a minute and a half commute and i will have more time to be with my new bride, with God, and with who knows what with an extra 12 hours a week sans commuting from Glendale.

But then i think about it and i realize that at one point i had those 12 hours back as i wasn’t commuting to a different county everyday…and i still seemed overwhelmed and too busy back then.

Why is it always like that?  Why is it that if i have 12 hours in a day to get 2 hours of work done…it still takes me 12 hours because i get distracted or procrastinate…but if i have 2 hours to get 2 hours of work done…i’m in prime time work load?  Why is it that my house gets the cleanest when i am in the middle of finals?  Is it because i would rather clean my bathroom floors than study?

I complain about how little free time i have and all the things i would love to do if i had time for it.  But then when i do have the free time I am at a loss for the things that i wanted to do and i find myself wasting the time away.

Am I the only one who feels like this?  I need help here…and would love to hear your advice.

Is it that i am unorganized, is it that i work better under time pressure, or is it because I still turn a deaf ear to God’s words to me in Psalm 46 - “Be still and know that I am God.”

Until then, I am back at it…trying to do my mental exercises after a lomg hiatus.

By the way, thanks Rhett for prodding me to get back into blogging shape…

Another great week of posts this week from my Fuller classmates…

check out the post by Eric P.

Eric, I appreciated your reflections on Taylor’s book, especially because you come from a similar background as myself…an age group specific ministry within a larger church…

as your community is trying to find its identity as it is being “birthed” by your mother church, and the resulting messiness and pain because of the apprehension of what new life will look like…i find this quote interesting…

As I reflect on our own community, I am struck with the realization that we have not been given room to be birthed… How many communities are like ours, having been conceived within the boundaries of a larger church, and while sensing the urgency of labor pangs, there is no midwife to help with delivery. The mother (if you will) is scared, terrified of the expected pain and unsure whether she is prepared to be responsible for a new life. In the moment it can seem so much easier to stall the inevitable, but severe consequences beg the process onward.  

I am not sure our community will be birthed healthily. Perhaps a cesarean will be necessary. The problem is that one way or another, for the new life to emerge, the mother must have part in the process.

 As I am in a similar situation as yourself, how do you see your church (the mother) playing a part in the process?  Are they willing?  Do they want to work through the pain?  Or would they rather turn their heads away and offer your new community up for adoption?

check out the post by Kyle

Kyle…I’m intrigued to hear how your church is incorporating children into the worship…i agree that we have failed at intergenerational worship and I was encouraged to see that VC places such a high value on it.

As a high school pastor, I am trying to process how I can incorporate the high school students into the larger church body…what are some of the key elements in making it happen at your church?

Check out Maria’s post here…

I am intrigued by your community…you say it is relevant, authentic, missional, and incarnational…awesome…

I know that you have addressed most of the other aspects in previous posts…but what are some examples of how your community is being missional?  I know that many are part of the Fuller community but are there some that have been drawn into the community who are outside the Fuller community?  In being missional, have there been some outside of the Fuller community who have been drawn into the community?

You all are great and I am stoked to be going through all of this with you!

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